Why How to Win Friends and Influence People Still Slaps a Century Later (Or: Why Dale Carnegie Could Still Teach Your Boss a Thing or Two)
In this thoughtful and entertaining blog post, Brian Nelson reflects on why How to Win Friends and Influence People — Dale Carnegie’s classic guide to human connection first published in 1936 — still resonates nearly a century later. Rather than corporate buzzwords and modern leadership fads, Carnegie’s timeless principles focus on real, human‑to‑human interaction: sincere appreciation, listening, understanding others’ interests, and making people feel genuinely valued. Whether you’re leading a team, working with customers, or navigating everyday conversations, these lessons still pack a punch in today’s fast‑paced world.
“Father Forgets” — And What It Taught Me About Leadership (Not Just Fatherhood)
In Father Forgets (and What It Taught Me About Leadership — Not Just Fatherhood), Brian Nelson turns a simple, human moment into a powerful lesson on leadership, empathy, and responsibility. Reflecting on a personal story of forgetfulness and the quiet weight of accountability, he draws parallels between parenting and leading a team: both require patience, humility, clear communication, and the courage to own mistakes. Whether you’re a parent, a leader at work, or someone striving to be better for the people who depend on you, this post blends vulnerability with insight and offers a heartfelt reminder that great leadership starts with humanity.